There is a phrase in the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous: it says “abandon yourself”. It’s somewhere around the end of the basic text.
Bill Wilson was right (about turning our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood him).
But he was also right about the enlargement of a spiritual experience.
Is “turning my will and my life over to the care of God” judging people who don’t fall into line with my likes and dislikes?
And who am I anyway?
Who’s telling me what’s right and wrong? My family? My friends? This particular moral code which I’ve inherited and think is God?
Everything that you believe is crap. Get used to it.